How a Little Effort Can Reap Relationship Rewards
If you are worried that your relationship has lost that all important spark, what can you do? Follow our guide, of course!
Sometimes relationships can lose steam. The affection and respect may still be there, but the excitement disappears. Sound familiar? Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. We’ve put together the best ways to inject that all important magic back into your relationship again. So are you listening? Good!
Dressing up is a great way to turn your partner’s head. After a few years of being together, it’s easy to sit around in your tracksuit with no makeup on, and only make an effort when you really have to. We’ve all done it, but complacency is not going to reignite those flames of passion. So try to smarten up occasionally. We’re not talking a designer wardrobe overhaul, just making a little bit of an effort. Try a sexy, form flattering dress with some killer heels and some red lipstick. Or maybe some seriously sexy underwear or a risqué dressing up outfit. Those last two are strictly for the bedroom, but there’s no reason not to make an effort outside of it.
Make some time for each other
Making time for each other is another great way of getting your partner interested again. We’re all guilty of falling into a boring routine of work, a little play and sleep. This leaves little time to spare, we know. Making this kind of effort will be worth it though! When your partner realises that you’ve set aside time especially for them, they will be thrilled. Take the time every week to indulge in a date night, or maybe even a cosy evening indoors. Whatever you get up to, make sure that mobile phones are off, diaries are clear and that you are totally focused on each other.
Another way of rekindling the flame of passion is to be spontaneous. Your love life is probably stuck in a rut, but with a little unpredictability, you won’t be able to keep your hands off of each other! Whether it is a night in a hotel or you deciding to call the babysitter this Saturday, spontaneity is the secret to a relationship that feels fresh rather than stale.
Talk it through
Your relationship may be suffering because you and your partner simply do not communicate. Talking is essential, and telling your partner just how much you love them is sure to go down well. There’s a little test you can do to see how appreciated your partner may feel. When was the last time you thanked them for either working hard, or when they made your day that little bit easier by being kind? Of course, there are other ways to show your appreciation, but we’ll leave that to you…
Fall for each other all over again
Hopefully, by reading this guide, you’ve realised where you’ve been slipping up. A relationship is a two way effort, of course, but once one partner begins to make more of an effort, the other often follows suit. Couples are often so wrapped up in their working lives that they have little or even no time for each other, leading to rows and bad feeling on both sides. By putting in a little hard work, you’ll be like love-struck teenagers all over again!
Suzanne Kent is the Founder of the No.1 Escort Agency in Kent – Suzanne’s Escorts